Monthly Archive for February, 2008

Rollin’ Into The Weekend

This weekend we continue “UFC.” Let me encourage you now to invest and invite and get your friends, family, coworkers, classmates… anyone to C3 Sunday as we look at some huge issues facing us today. I really believe it’s going to be very helpful and life-changing!

Each week I talk with pastors around our nation who are following the C3 story.  Today, I had the opportunity to chat with a pastor from right here in Central Florida.  As we spoke on the phone, it was one of those moments where you know the other person doesn’t just talk the same language, but understands. I love meeting guys who have such a passion to make a difference by reaching people. I look forward to getting to know Joseph Thompson and the Church At The Well better. Check out his blog and website!

Hey, Sunday’s coming and it’s going to be Phenom!

Just Because

In my last post I mentioned an article I read regarding the decline that’s taking place in most churches. One sentence struck me - not because it was new information, in fact, it’s really more of the same and that’s why it really got me - more of the same being ignored…

“…On the Protestant side, changes in affiliation are swelling the ranks of nondenominational churches, while Baptist and Methodist traditions are showing net losses.”

I grew up Southern Baptist - and have been told I should be Southern Baptist “just because”. It was in my blood - it’s all I knew to be. But in recent days (months and years) I’ve been asking some deeper questions that, for me, reveal a deep problem with denominations like my own. Questions like:

  • What are Southern Baptist known for? Is it just what they’re against, who they dislike, which political party is “ordained by God” - or that they dunk?
  • What do unchurched people think of Southern Baptist? While there are those who try to put pretty spin on it, the reality is they are not drawn to us - the research has been screaming this for years. If the people of Jesus’ day were drawn to him, and we’re suppose to look like, act like and represent him, why aren’t they drawn to us? How did we get to the place where many of our church people would be more drawn to Pharisees than Jesus?
  • How many years will go by in the denomination that speaks so much of the Great Commission while we decline and seemingly ignore the facts and reality?
  • Are we more proud of being “Baptist” or being Christ-followers?

The reality is I, and many other pastors, am over it. I remember shortly after I became a pastor in the state of Florida going to the executive meetings of our state convention. I remember being astounded at how much of our “missions” money was actually paying some pretty decent salaries here in Florida and never making it overseas.

Hear me - I’m not against people, pastors, ministers… making great salaries. In fact, I believe the Bible teaches those in ministry should! What I do take issue with is those who would tell me to lead my church to support “missions” while painting a picture that it’s for people in other lands who are far from God, when in reality only pennies of each dollar actually get there.

We seem to have this mentality that we’re just suppose to do certain things because it’s what’s always been done. Just because some people who find themselves very important make decisions we’re suppose to simply agree. I’ve got to be honest - all that would be cool if we were really reaching people. But, Southern Baptist are not doing that as well as they used to. And many seem unwilling to change. More energy is put into protecting ineffective structures, impotent programs, and the status quo than really reaching people.

Denomination - it’s not in the Bible… in fact, anytime people began to take “sides” it all came back to “follow Jesus.” Loving God and loving others - it’s not only in the Bible, it’s the bottom line according to Jesus.

Everything that is a relic today was once relevant. The greatest miscalculation is to assume yesterday’s relevance is an entitlement for tomorrow’s success. So, for C3 - we’re not about being _____ (whatever label you can think of) - we’re passionately pursuing Christ and those who don’t know him yet! While the Nominating Committee elects the Committee on Committee’s and they discuss revamping policies that will help some churches look the same old way in a new day, seeking the majority approval vote… our neighbors are going to Heaven or Hell!

I’ve grown up Southern Baptist, and while there have been some positive contributions there have also been things like:

  • Business Meetings where people discuss and argue over things that won’t even matter in 5 years.
  • Committees that spend more time strategizing and meeting than impacting people far from God.
  • A bunch of white people… Hey - if it’s all white it just ain’t right!!!
  • Being proud of who we were more than who God is.
  • Baptizing people who were coming from the Methodist church because they’d only been sprinkled and then counting it in our numbers of people we “reached for Christ” that year.

Bottom line - “just because” is not enough. I certainly don’t have all the answers - I don’t even know all the questions.  But, I do know we must be willing to change. If, rather than changing, we find ourselves defending, I fear we will one day be defending something that no longer exists. Radical problems often require radical solutions - I pray we have the courage.

Wake Up And Smell the Espresso!

It’s late and I’m dead tired. I read an interesting article this morning at US News and World Report. What does the church do when large numbers of adults are bolting (almost half). The “traditional” church just isn’t cutting it… - perhaps it’s because we love our tradition more than we love God and others.

So, if a majority of churches are not really reaching the “unchurched” and now nearly half of the “churched” are gettin’ out of dodge, what’s next? When will we take the necessary steps to really implement what Jesus talked about - a culture of love for God and others more than ourselves? At C3 - implementation without reservation has taken place!

Check out the article here.

I’m Blessed

I really missed being at C3 today! It was great hangin’ with our team in Dallas. The conference at Fellowship Church, as usual, had huge impact. I’m still processing everything that impacted me - here are a few thoughts:

  • Leadership is often lonely. It’s just flat true. Nobody understands the pressure, weight, and responsibility of a pastor and a pastor’s wife but other pastors and their wives. I think that’s one of the reasons conferences like this resonate with me so much. These aren’t just people talking about making a difference. They have and they are doing it - and they’ve paid the price.
  • Angie broke down one of the major truths the Bishop shared that hit me hard here. I’m so blessed to have more confidants than most people ever experience. I have, in the past, mistaken comrades and constituents for confidants - and it cost, but never again.
  • Delegation without interrogation is relegation.” God is into delegation, and to be effective we must be as well. However, delegation isn’t simply passing it off and forgetting about it - it’s making sure it happens. People will not do what we expect, they will do what we inspect.
  • Religious church people can’t stand pastors and churches that are really reaching people. The stories of hundreds of people bolting - fighting hard to stop the vision - it’s everywhere the church is really making a difference.
  • Angie and I got to spend some time with Ed and Lisa a couple of years ago. The reality of a genuine, authentic pastor with a passion to really take big risks to impact lives is rare. I find many pastors talk about how the church is declining, and how bad our culture is, and which programs they need to implement. However, I find few willing to risk everything to follow God’s vision and calling.
  • Pastor Tommy Barnett really challenged me. His Dream Center in Los Angeles in having huge results. He also pastors a major church in Phoenix and dared to say that there have been many times he’s wanted to quit! What?! Wow - I thought it was just me. Sometimes you just get weary in the fight - moving from one battle and victory into another battle - seasons of ministry where the enemy is focused on you and your church because you really are reaching people. How many times have I met with Barry Leathers (Executive Pastor) and said, “Bro, I think I’m done“? In those moments, it’s not even the vision that keeps you going - it’s the calling. I’m doing what I was born to do - I have no other option and no greater joy.
  • This vision and passion is God’s - it comes from him and it’s all about him. Because of that he will sustain it.
  • It was amazing to see so many pastors and wives from so many denominations and backgrounds gathering for the purpose of learning how the church can be even more effective in reaching people. I really feel sorry for people who never take the time to listen to and think through what leading pastors are sharing because they don’t agree with everything they say. Is there really anybody who you agree with about every single thing?!
  • It’s going to be a great week - I can’t wait for next Sunday as we continue the “Ultimate Family Challenge.
  • Ultimately, I’m incredibly blessed!

Righteously Real

Angie and I really needed this break. I’m pumped about the conference starting today, and about having our team here with us.

It’s amazing how we miss our kids so much. I remember when I used to travel almost every week. I would generally be gone from Saturday until Thursday most weeks. On Saturdays, the “good-byes” never got any easier. I’m just crazy in love with my family.

Because of that love, I was really concerned for my bride and kids as we walked through the transition (a major paradigm shift in our structure, vision, philosophy of church). I’ve known so many pastors kids who not only bailed on church, but on Christ, and to some degree, their family. It’s still a concern - my kids get to see the raw ugliness that some people live with. However, I’ve been amazed at God’s grace in protecting them and keeping them focused on him through all the hell they’ve experienced. They’ve been able to stand up to the politically correct “church world” where we let people define us - they’ve been able to recognize religious bull corn, and cowards who act real tough in a little mob, but never had the courage to face their Dad alone.

Somehow, through all this, God has taught my kids (and me and Angie) about his grace, his purpose, and a little more about loving him and loving others. I’m overwhelmed with gratitude to an awesome God who simply created me to do what I’m doing, and daily works in the lives of my kids and bride to sustain them and guide them and keep them. I’m blessed beyond all the mess.

And, my kids are seeing more people come to Christ every month than all those who tried to destroy this vision have ever seen. My kids are being used to bring people to Christ - and those people, well, my kids can’t remember anyone they ever led to Christ. It’s really not that complicated - loving God and loving others is not just a catch phrase. There are those who throw it around like it means something, but their very lives deny that it has any meaning to them. To my kids, they live it - and I love them. Kayleigh, my oldest, wrote this… it’s not churchy or what most pastor’s daughters are taught, but it’s real and true - imagine that, she’s learned to be real as a Christ follower and pastor’s daughter! Again, I’m blessed - what a life!